These simple ways can make your married life happier than ever
Tips for Happy Married Life
Here I am to share my personal thoughts about a happy married life, this time having an entirely new perspective about it.
A ceremony which links two families together through a fusillade of rituals and obligations to fulfill is just not the only way how one can define this divine bond called ‘marriage’.
The true meaning of marriage lies in the bonding of hearts between two people. While many people may relate marriage with developing a dependency with one’s spouse, it is exactly the other way round. Marriage is about developing a bond of trust with your partner so strong that you can actually give him/her a sense of freedom, a sense of mutual understanding and get the same in return. It’s all about sharing everything the way it is and drawing out the solutions to many problems of life together.
Ofcourse dependency comes with attachment, the patience soon transforms into complaints and love decays over the time but this is where creativity comes into picture. What if you can look at your spouse from a new perception every day with a recycled memory? What if there is willingness to forget the past and rely on the present moment than creating a permanent image of someone? What if each day can bring a new beautiful discovery about your loved one? What if the journey of life becomes interesting and free from dependency or expectations?
While some people fight have serious problems to manage, I have seen a lot of couples fighting over petty things such that they would even forget where it started from. Most commonly the situations like these occur due to assumptions or unfulfilled promises of the better half . What is the point in making promises when you really intend to do something at the suitable time? I mean just do what you want to do when possible. There is no need to render the other person expecting the spoken words to materialize.
Only if one gets rid of the shackles of a stale memory, married life can be made very interesting, full of fun and free of boredom. That is the reason why going for a holiday rejuvenates the relationships and couples forget their differences for a while. It happens because the memory which was full of bad experiences with each other gets temporarily replaced with fresh and happy moments. What if the memory gets replaced on daily basis? (Fingers crossed and I hope that I am able to remember my own opinions when the situation falls upon me!)
True, responsibilities increase manifolds after marriage but for the same reason, it is an important phase of evolution or growth where one learns to keep his self image intact while coping with the family or social needs. During difficult circumstances, it is only the spouse’s support that matters. It can make an individual feel powerful and confident every time. The only thing which is needed is to give space to each other to open up and share. There can be embarrassing times, or moments of inferiority, but the honesty will strengthen the bond forever.
Tips for Happy Married Life
Tips for Happy Married Life
